Your fur baby is NOT gone.

Grief is what’s standing in the way.

If you’re here, it’s because you loved your fur baby so intensely.

And when love has nowhere to go, it will turn into intense pain.

Grief does not mean the connection has ended nor has it been lost.
It can feel that way, because love is carrying heavy emotions that haven’t had space to be expressed and move yet.

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Grief does not mean the connection has ended.

It means the connection is clouded by love that is carrying feelings that may feel like:

• guilt
   

• loneliness
   

• anger
   

• sadness
   

• disappointment
   

• emptiness
   

• shock
   

• disbelief
   

• numbness
   

If any of these resonate, it doesn’t mean something is wrong with you.
It means you loved.

And you’re not alone.
I know what this feels like.
I have been where you are.
And I’m here to guide you gently — at your pace.

 

🌿 A Moment of Truth

Most people believe they can’t feel their fur baby anymore because:

• they did something wrong
   

• their fur baby left
   

• the connection disappeared
   

None of this is true.

What actually happens is this:
grief fills the space where connection used to flow.

 

🌱 Take a Moment to Check In

On a scale of 1–10, how strong do each of these feel right now?
(10 = very strong)

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• Grief
   

• Loneliness
   

• Guilt
   

• Sadness
   

• Anger
   

• Numbness
   

• Fear of abandonment
   

• The feeling of loss
   

• Emptiness
   

• Shock
   

There is no right or wrong number.
Just notice what comes up. 

Now that you know how intense these feelings are.. Let us gently release them to feel connected to your fur baby again.

 

🌬️ A Gentle Release 

Take one slow, deep breath.
Let your shoulders soften just a little.

Now, gently ask yourself:

If I could feel connected to my fur baby again,
would I allow some of this grief to dissipate — just a little?

And a little more.
And a little more.

And when would I let the grief dissipate or dissolve?

 

🌿 A Quiet Choice

If you knew that by letting these feelings soften
you would not lose the connection,
but actually feel more connected than you do right now…

Would you allow any of what’s blocking you to release?

Would you let it go —
now… or later?

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If you knew that by letting go of the grief, sadness, loneliness, emptiness, guilt, or anger
you could actually feel more connected to your fur baby
and receive ongoing messages with ease,
would you let all of those feelings go — just for now?

And when would you let all of them go?

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Is it a good enough reason to hold onto all of these feelings
if you knew you were safe
and knew you were connected to your fur babies?

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Would you hold onto the feelings?

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If you knew you could receive messages right away from your fur baby,
would you continue to want to feel separate
and hold onto any of those feelings of grief, guilt, sadness, etc.?

And when would you let them go?

There’s no pressure.
Just notice what feels true.

Take one more slow breath.

 

🌱 Check In Again

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On a scale of 1–10, how strong does the grief feel now?

Even a small shift matters.
That’s not imagination — it’s your system beginning to open.​​

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